Category Archives: Healing

Dawnland and The Gatherings

Early in January, Hanover Friends Meeting hosted a talk by Bruce Duthu about the Truth and Reconciliation Commission in Maine.  The TRC was intended to uncover the truth about child-welfare practice with Maine’s Native people.  They wanted to create opportunities … Continue reading →

Posted in Healing, Interesting link, Present Day, Story | Comments Off on Dawnland and The Gatherings

Empathetic Distress

From Kosmos Journal, 5/18/21 Unfortunately, the difficulties of late capitalism, as more of us are pressured to compete with each other in distorted markets, while we increasingly perceive the turbulence both around and ahead of us, means that anxiety is … Continue reading →

Posted in Guidance, Healing, Interesting link, Present Day, Spirit, Trauma | Comments Off on Empathetic Distress

Guide Meditation: Robin Williams

June 17, 1993  Writers group, Sybil & Lynn Guide Meditation: This is a standard one, I don’t remember where I got it.  I may have had it on tape. You start following a path, then come to a cave, then … Continue reading →

Posted in Guidance, Healing, Trauma, Writing | Comments Off on Guide Meditation: Robin Williams

Safe Places for Me

I have felt unsafe most of my life without realizing it.  Growing up, I felt safe in a book, and in the woods. Books and nature have remained places of safety for me.  Looking back, I realized I felt safe … Continue reading →

Posted in Healing, Interesting link, Spirit, Trauma | Comments Off on Safe Places for Me

The Support of the Ordinary, Reprise

I did a blog post on the support of the ordinary back in November of 2018. I had been at Kendal for about a year.  Here’s a paragraph: Erica has been telling me that I will begin to get a … Continue reading →

Posted in Healing, Present Day, Trauma | Comments Off on The Support of the Ordinary, Reprise

“Real Substantive Engagement,” reprise

This is from a longer post.  My therapist praised (October 14, 2016)  “Your tenacity in wanting to be engaged in real substantive ways.” It’s an important concept for me.  I think it’s one of the reasons I’m doing so much … Continue reading →

Posted in Healing, Vocation | Comments Off on “Real Substantive Engagement,” reprise

“Stuck in Their Misery”

I got an email recently from someone who said I was “stuck in my misery.”  Feeling fortified by the knowledge that I hadn’t wasted my suffering, and knowing that our culture tends to blame people for their suffering, I didn’t … Continue reading →

Posted in Depression, Healing, Journal, Present Day, Spirit, Trauma | Comments Off on “Stuck in Their Misery”

I choose to trust…

Recently I’ve been going through a bad time.  Waking up in the morning feeling disconnected from everything and everybody.  Finally I remembered that when Trump was elected, I dealt with my despair by reciting “Peace, Love, Justice…” even though the … Continue reading →

Posted in Guidance, Healing, Present Day, Spirit | Comments Off on I choose to trust…

Primary Satisfactions and Secondary Satisfactions

I found this such a good explanation for how our culture produces so many addictions, including addiction to money.  One sign of “secondary satisfaction” is, no matter how much you get, you always want more. From Francis Weller: Through studying … Continue reading →

Posted in Healing, Interesting link, Story | Comments Off on Primary Satisfactions and Secondary Satisfactions

A Container for Initiation

Weller describes the container: What distinguishes these two things is initiation, what I call the contained encounter with death. The containment was provided by the community, by the elders, by the ancestors, by the rituals, by the space itself. In … Continue reading →

Posted in Circle Dance, Healing, Spirit, Story, Trauma | Comments Off on A Container for Initiation