{"id":998,"date":"2011-01-08T08:39:19","date_gmt":"2011-01-08T13:39:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/jennydeupree.com\/?p=998"},"modified":"2011-01-08T08:41:34","modified_gmt":"2011-01-08T13:41:34","slug":"guidance-more-about-katie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jennydeupree.com\/?p=998","title":{"rendered":"Guidance & More About Katie"},"content":{"rendered":"

(Written in August 2009)
\n\tDear Guides and Guardian Spirits, I\u2019m feeling pretty discouraged, and badly disconnected from the strong and healthy parts of my life. Can you help me?
\n\tDear Jenny, we love you. This is temporary, you will come out of it. You do need to be connecting with your support people, and continuing to do the grief work. We remind you that Beverly is out of town and Caryn is unavailable. This is difficult because you are doing the same work that Katie found so difficult \u2014 traumatized parts of you are trying to get it that help is always available, and love is always available, but it hasn\u2019t been internalized yet. You can get it when you are with Caryn, but not when she\u2019s not there. The youngest and most traumatized parts of you haven\u2019t developed the capacity to take in the love and caring that are available to you. Patience, dear Jenny. Keep on with what you have been doing. You will heal.<\/em><\/p>\n

Note: there comes a time in infancy when the baby begins to get it that mother is still there even if she\u2019s out of sight. At this time the baby will start playing \u201cpeek-a-boo\u201d as part of the learning process. In a way what is happening is the baby is internalizing an image of the mother which provides safety, warmth, etc even when mother isn\u2019t there. Both Katie and myself are struggling with exactly this issue, how to internalize a positive image of \u201cmother\u201d when the mother figure isn’t there.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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