{"id":8726,"date":"2024-09-13T13:48:49","date_gmt":"2024-09-13T17:48:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jennydeupree.com\/?p=8726"},"modified":"2024-09-13T13:48:49","modified_gmt":"2024-09-13T17:48:49","slug":"1997-highly-sensitive-people","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jennydeupree.com\/?p=8726","title":{"rendered":"1997: Highly Sensitive People"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>From my journal for July 15, 1997<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>New book about \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Highly-Sensitive-Person-Thrive-Overwhelms\/dp\/0553062182\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Highly Sensitive People<\/a>\u201d \u2014 It\u2019s clear that I fall into this category, along with about 20% of the population.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Unfortunately, 42% are not sensitive at all, and sensitivity, perception of subtleties, quietness and caution are not traits that are valued by Western Culture,<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>(Apparently in China &amp; Sweden, these traits are valued.)<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>The author says that we are very important for the whole, that any society needs its priestly advisors as well as its warrior kings, and that we need to value and protect ourselves appropriately.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>I found this book very validating and supportive.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>I\u2019ve come to many of the same conclusions lately, I think because of my increased effort to take care of myself appropriately.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>The book helps me do that better, by pointing out that what gives HSP\u2019s trouble is overstimulation.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>I\u2019ve been cutting down on things by not trying to do so many things in a day, but now I understand why this works.<\/p>\n<p>There was a section on \u201csacred space,\u201d talking about one of the important functions we perform for society \u2014 gives me an added appreciation of Neskaya.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Turns out Dana is HSP too, 15 yes out of 23 questions, and I\u2019m sure Lynelle is.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>I was 19 yes out of 23.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Sometime in the late 80&#8217;s <a href=\"https:\/\/jennydeupree.com\/?p=2899\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">I went to a retreat<\/a> called Woman&#8217;s Way and was told \u201cYou are trying to take in too much.\u00a0 Use your venetian blinds.\u201d <a href=\"https:\/\/jennydeupree.com\/?p=2899\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">This post<\/a> tells the story of my fearing I was &#8220;too sensitive&#8221; and learning that my sensitivity was a special strength that I needed to learn how to use correctly.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>From my journal for July 15, 1997 New book about \u201cHighly Sensitive People\u201d \u2014 It\u2019s clear that I fall into this category, along with about 20% of the population.\u00a0 Unfortunately, 42% are not sensitive at all, and sensitivity, perception of &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/jennydeupree.com\/?p=8726\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,9,14],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8726","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-healing","category-journal","category-spirit"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/jennydeupree.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8726","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/jennydeupree.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/jennydeupree.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jennydeupree.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jennydeupree.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=8726"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/jennydeupree.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8726\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/jennydeupree.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=8726"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jennydeupree.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=8726"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jennydeupree.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=8726"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}